My wife recently wrote a blog post about Facebook Affairs. She brigns to light an important issue that is affecting thousands of people. This new trend is exposing emptiness in people all over the country.
Read her blog post and then check out these comments being made by men on her blog:
Yes facebook i do believe has just ruined and ended my 17 year realtionship with my wife who i truly loved very much.. It was hardest thing i ever went through in my life watching my marriage fail and my two young sons having to go through the nightmare too..
it went like this, my wife had joined facebook and connected with a school sweetheart from when she was about 16 and i assume this guy was her first.. I had heard the story about how she had went with a guy in school and he broke up with her to date her best friend at the time , the fellow and her best friend went on to marry and i guess where married until recent and he joined facebook posting there for dating and one thing lead to the other now here i am giving up half of my hard earned money and real estate assets and finacial security that i created for the well being of my familys future as well as colleage savings for my boys.. I never would have thought my wife would have had an affair but i caught this real quick and called her out on it.. if you are having that gut feeling something is wrong theres a good chance it is .. thats what clued me in it was just my instinct that something is up.. so now here i am trying to recover from a emotional train wreck which i truly know would have not happened if it was not for the reconnection of them on facebook.. they where seperated by one state a little over two hours apart.. i can only now know what couples go through in divorce and seperation. if u havent been there u just dont know .. I know its not facebooks fault , but i would still be in a happy marriage if it where not for the site.. no doubt in my mind about it.. guess she feels like she had a chance to get the man she lost.. and now here i am crushed dazed and confused.. oh well ! guess i never had what i thought i did.. and now will move forward.. i heard once what dont kill you will make you stronger so guess i will be stonger soon.. Peace and blessing Terry
I wish I would have known about this problem months ago. I’m going through this with my wife of nearly 20 yrs right now! She started IM’ing an old boyfriend. I just thought he was an old friend of hers & everything was “innocent”. She went back to her old hometown & went out with him just “as friends”. Now she has “developed” unexplained feelings for him. MEN BEWARE!! I would have NEVER thought this would happen to my marriage!! NEVER!!
My wife of four months and mother to our two kids
has just told me she is leaving me for another man she has been contantly talking with on Facebook. She says they are now soulmates and must be together. She is already looking at houses and refuses to listen to any family or friends. It started only two weeks ago. All her recent life history she has ammended to justfy her actions. It is as though she has been brainwashed or drugged. I am only clinging on to the hope that she will see reality, and I will keep every door open for her.
We have got to get involved. Call me up to Biblical Manhood. Making sure men are leading their wives well and calling men to keep their hands and emotions off of married women. This is false satisfaction for all parties involved in the long run.